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Opposites Don’t Attract

Opposites Don’t Attract

You’ve likely heard it before—maybe you’ve even said it yourself: “Opposites attract.”That may be true for magnets, but it’s not how life works.In life, like attracts like.

Whatever patterns exist in your subconscious—along with the emotions embedded within those patterns—vibrate at a certain frequency. That vibration draws in people, experiences, and everything else of a similar frequency.

Ultimately, it’s the emotion (energy) within the patterns that is magnetic and draws things of a similar frequency to it. Know that energy has no ability to discriminate between what is positive and what is not, so you attract into your life based on what is vibrating within your subconscious.

This is why the work begins within.

When you understand yourself—your nature, your tendencies, your subconscious patterns—you begin to see clearly why certain things or people are showing up in your life: the positive and the not-so-positive.

So ask yourself:What am I consistently attracting into my life?What qualities do the people and experiences in my life share?Are those qualities aligned with the life I want to live?

If they’re not, the answer is not “out there.” It’s within. The subconscious holds the blueprint, and to change what you attract, you must change what’s within.

My latest course, The Magic of the Mind, is all about understanding the subconscious—how to work with the patterns within it, remove (so to speak) the patterns that don’t support us, and consciously create patterns that will serve us by attracting into our life things that are aligned with our priorities.

Once this is established, the course then guides you into the work of accessing the superconscious state.

The Magic of the Mind course is on sale now as part of the Happier Life Program—a program designed to give you the fundamental teachings and tools to work with your mind and energy to live a life that is aligned with your priorities, so that you can live a joyous and purposeful life.


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