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Lesson Noted, Lesson Learnt
A couple of weeks back I was speaking with an entrepreneur who shared with me that she got involved in a personal issue with her client that she should have stayed out of. At that time she felt it was harmless to get involved in the conversation but later the whole thing played out unpleasantly.
I shared with her that it is best not to get involved in people’s personal matters unless there are good terms of understanding between both parties. She realized the wisdom of this and then remarked to me “well, lesson learnt!”
I replied, “No, lesson noted not learnt. Lesson is learnt only when the same mistake is not repeated again.”
It’s important to know when you’ve only noted your lesson and when you have learnt from it. You’ll find that most people often say “lesson learnt” but what they should really be saying is “lesson noted”.
When do we learn from our experiences?
We prove we have learnt from our experiences when a similar opportunity comes up again in the future and this time we make a wiser choice based on the lesson that was noted in the first experience. Then and only then have we learnt from our experiences.
Most people do not look at experiences in life as opportunities to learn from and improve oneself. Why? Mainly because most people do not make it a priority in their life to improve themselves.
When personal unfoldment is a priority in your life, a major priority in your life, then every experience is an opportunity to learn from.
Your ability to be present in your experiences throughout the day (which results from your ability to concentrate) will allow you to see the lessons that you can take away from each of those experiences. You are now in a state of perpetual growth. But you must have a good ability to concentrate in order to do so.
It also requires humility. Another quality a lot of people struggle with. A topic for another day.
Be observant of how many times you have to note the same lesson before you finally learn from it. For many years, I had to note most lessons three to four times before I learnt from it. That was what I observed in me. Some experiences I have yet to learn from…sigh!
The ideal, and I say again, the ideal, is to have an experience just once and learn from it.
There is a greater ideal. A more mystical ideal, and that is to learn from an experience that someone else is having. To observe someone go through an experience, note and learn the lesson by purely observing, and have the ability then to cause that learning to create a shift in the way you lead your life.
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Commit to a path
It’s only when you commit to a spiritual path can you truly make progress. In fact, this applies to any path leading to a clearly defined goal. But people are terrified of commitment. They would rather, as my guru would say, “be committed to not being committed”. Commitment for most means a givi...
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Push The Horizon
It is hard to care about anyone or anything when you only think of yourself or just today. But when you push the horizon further it is natural to start seeing the bigger picture and start caring. Let me ask you a series of questions to make my point. If you had children, would you…
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Too Young to Die
When you don’t value your time on this planet enough is when you don’t see the need to live a focused life. Life is an absolutely precious gift that can be taken away at any time. This is a fact not something that is debatable. When I was 21 years old a friend of mine…
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Build a Dam
The rate and volume at which information comes at us today is unparalleled in human history. It seems that wherever we go there is a barrage of information thrown at us – warranted or not, it’s forced upon us. It’s not only information but things and people as well. It’s easier to meet mor...
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The Superconscious Mind
If you were to look at the mind in a simplified way you can say that there are three states of mind. The conscious, the subconscious and the superconscious mind. What is the superconscious mind? My guru defines it as the “The mind of light, the all-knowing intelligence of the soul.” In Sanskrit...
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A Focused Life
A focused life. Desired by many. Strived for by a few. Lived by even fewer. The art of bringing awareness back to what and whom it is engaged with is the key practice for becoming good at being focused. There is no shortcut to becoming good at focusing. Just hard work, relentless practice, endl...
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